Unlabelled: A Conversation with Emery Payne
Published on: Aug 27, 2025
Written by: Joey Hodgson
As part of Unlabelled, OUTtv’s powerful new documentary exploring the transgender experience through trans feminine, trans masculine, and non-binary stories, we sat down with Emery Payne to talk about their journey. From reflecting on childhood memories to celebrating the love and support they’ve found in their community, Emery Payne shares an open and inspiring perspective on living authentically and breaking free from labels.
What made you want to share your story as part of Unlabelled?
With so much negativity aimed at the trans community, I felt deeply humbled – and also incredibly excited – to be invited to take part in a project that highlights the positive and authentic sides of the transgender journey. I love that this film shares stories through three distinct and diverse lenses: trans feminine, trans masculine, and non-binary. It shows the richness within our community while offering hope and understanding in a world that often misunderstands us.
How did it feel to reflect on your journey during the filming process?
It was interesting going through old photos and reliving memories as far back as my youth. But more than that, it was powerful to truly let go and share stories I had only ever told to a handful of people before.
What was the most powerful or emotional moment for you while making the documentary?
Oh, without a doubt, the most emotional moment was sharing how incredibly blessed I have been with the amount of love and support from my friends and community throughout this journey—especially the unconditional love my daughters have provided.
What do you hope viewers take away from watching your story?
I hope viewers come away from this story with a sense of hope. There is so much beauty, love, and support in our communities, and it’s worth focusing on that instead of the negativity in the world.
Unlabelled explores the idea of breaking free from labels. What does that theme mean to you personally?
For me, breaking free from labels means I don’t have to be only male or only female—I can embrace both, or neither, as it feels right to me. Gender, like sexuality, exists on a spectrum, and I think the world would be a much better place if we all embraced that fluidity.
Was there anything you were nervous about sharing on camera? How did you work through that?
LOL yes! The part about raiding my mom’s closet as a kid was definitely the most nerve-wracking thing I shared (especially if she saw the film). How did I work through it? Besides hoping she wouldn’t see it, I decided that I have nothing to hide anymore. Being open and transparent means sharing how long I’ve been hiding too.
How has your support system changed throughout your transition?
My support system hasn’t really changed at its core. I’ve always surrounded myself with positivity, and though I’ve changed outwardly, I’m still the same person—just cuter! ;P That said, I’ve also built new chosen family and friendships within trans and queer communities, which have brought me even more support and connection.
What was it like working with director Colette Johnson-Vosberg, and how did she shape the experience?
Colette was absolutely delightful to work with—always warm and welcoming. She had a clear vision for the film, and her openness to my ideas made the whole experience feel collaborative and that much more meaningful.
In a time when queer and trans representation faces growing backlash, what kinds of stories do you think we need now more than ever?
Honestly, we need stories that are full of positivity, hope, and acceptance without hesitance. Stories like this one matter not just for folks transitioning, but also for anyone who is curious and wants to learn. Those stories help people connect and understand each other better.
What advice would you give to someone who’s just beginning to explore their identity?
Don’t be afraid of what others think—your journey is yours alone. One of the best pieces of advice I’ve received is to always be confident in who you are. It’s okay to feel scared or unsure sometimes, but when you push through and own yourself without apology, people will see your strength and respect it. Believing in yourself is your greatest strength.